Dear JCPS,
The lack of
sibling consideration in school selection process is a major issue especially
for those parents who have elementary school age children or single parent
households.
I am a widow,
a single mom of two boys 5 and 6. My youngest son did not get into the same
school as his brother(Brandeis Elementary). This is an issues on several
levels.
You want more
parent involvement however, having kids at different schools will limit parent
involvement. Currently, I serve on the PTA, I am a room parent, I attend all
field trips, and class parties, however, having kids at two different schools I
will have to pick who’s class party I attend and who I take to school on the
first day. It is already hard as a single widowed mom. Instead, I am left with
a heartbreaking choice of picking what event I will attend and what child I
will accompany. For a mother, that is a heartbreaking choice that I refuse to
make for the well being of my children. Having to pick which school I volunteer
at will increase the chance of my sons thinking there is favoritism if I make
it to one school and not the other. Research shows that having a parent
involved increases the overall success of a student. However, when you split
children you do not help parents to get involved… you make it harder. Holiday
parties, conferences, and special events that fall on the same day will be
impossible attend.
Secondly, the
school system has allowed students who are technically not suppose to be in
kindergarten to have slots. I don’t think it is fair if a child is tested up
and entering school early that they should be able to have slots at magnet or
traditional school. It takes away from the children who are starting on time
and if parent chooses to test their child up then they should not be given
priority over students who are suppose to be in kindergarten. Rather they
should have been the ones on the waiting list!
It is also not
fair that the lottery pick selection process is not across the board. If you
want to make changes and be fair it should be at all schools in
JCPS. The Brown School was not a lottery pick and it really shows bias
when it comes to the selection process. If the school board wants to make
changes, the school board can not pick and choose which schools will follow
suit.
Lastly,
bullying is obviously an issue and research shows that having an older sibling
at school decreases the incident of bullying. Why? Because the child has a
sibling, a friend, someone to look out for them and with all the recent
negative publicity JCPS is getting considering sibling placement should have
been a priority to consider.
Logistically,
I live in Fern Creek and my oldest son attends school on 28th and
Broadway. It would be impossible to get both of them to school. Not too mention
if one of them decides to participate in sports and/or extracurricular
activities.
Of course, if
all schools were equal I would not be having this issue. My kids would
have gone to their home. However that is not the case and I do not
believe it is unreasonable to consider siblings during school assignment
process especially at the elementary school level. These are not kid self-sufficient
like a middle or high schooler, They are very much still dependent on a parent
to pick them up and drop them off. You leave me with a choice of up rooting a
well established child in order to be able to function as a parent and have
them both at the same school. Not the ideal choice for a child who is excelling
within his current school.
And I’m not
just advocating for my own children! I know this complaint is widespeard and
there are so many others in regards to the school assignment process. I have
research statistics in regards to children success over the years because
of my career as a pediatric nurse practitioner. I have seen over and over again
how JCPS and the system has failed our youth evidence by so many issues including
but not limited to the increase in countless suspension and lack of mental
health resources. I have wrote several letters for patients in support of
parents because JCPS would not address certain issues. Yes, I believe some of
it stems from parenting skills but a lot of times it’s due JCPS’
failures.
Having this
background and knowledge And as a single mother of two young
African-American males I want to beat the statistics of their success
rate. I have taken the extra steps, I made arrangements to take a part time
position so that I could be more involved, I serve on the PTA and volunteer my
time to aid in the success of my boys. However, JCPS is definitely hindering
the support and engagement I can give to my boys by splitting and dividing my
family in to two different schools.
You all should
definitely consider keeping families together. That should be a priority in
school selection process.
Sincerely,
Concerned Parent